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The Mystery of a Relationship

Its hard or rather very difficult to imagine the amount of hatred or anger that a person can harbor against their ex. Do you get to a point of killing that person? Do you get to the level of lying? Is the scent of the scalp of your once-loved one so sweet that if an opportunity falls in your lap, you are willing to ruin the career of your ex.? Should a person be so engrossed in their own illusionary thoughts, imaginations, ideas that he/she should negate all the positive vibes, acts of restoration, forgiveness that her/his loved one is sending across? Is any sin, wrong, error or a mistake unforgivable at all? There are innumerable questions that have been bogging my mind. I know, I'll never have the answers to these. At least, I've communicated them.


Is it too hard to forgive someone who is doing all his/her best to being forgiven? Every one makes a mistake. Well, I've mine in thousands. Then, I'm an exception. I wonder why people bring egos in their relationship. The moments I spent on my knees in front of her are very cherished memories. May be, I'll never forget that. Hmmm.. I've never done that before or later. That's one exclusive act of love, commitment, worship that I've never duplicated. Never will.


If I have to delve into my own life, then yes, of course, I have been through this stage as well. But then, it was a mixture of both love, anger and hatred. I couldn't accept being at the receiving end at almost all of the time. Being ditched is not what I ever asked for. Breaking apart is a part of a relationship. I should have made a provision for that. Alas, I never did.


I have come to believe that people who go (leave), never come back. Try hard as you may. I remember the old Hindi film song, 'chahe bhejo hazaro salaam, wo phir nahin aate, wo phir nahin aate'.Lesson of the game: Love is a treasure. Once gone, forever gone.

Death Sentence: To Them or Us too?

Guwahati India. Monday July 9, 2012. Around 10 PM. A 20-year old girl is molested, slapped, beaten, groped, and stripped outside a bar in full public view by a mob of twenty and more persons. The crime was caught on camera and uploaded on social networking site. Due to the outrageous and ghastly act, people are demanding a death sentence for all the accused involved.

Is the mob consisting of twenty and more people the only ones who are guilty of such a heinous crime? Are they the only ones who are to be sentenced to death? Are we not in the same league? Have we not committed the same offence?

Every male, who has attained puberty, has, in his lifetime, raped girls and women, with his eyes. Every male, including you and me, in our thought process and imagination, have lusted, molested and raped innumerable girls and women. Are we not guilty of the same offence of which these guys are guilty of? Should not the death sentence be pronounced on you and me who are guilty of the same offence?

Now that the Indians themselves have voluntarily demanded a death sentence for the accused and they themselves are not excluded from the guilt, they themselves are the accused, should all be acquitted or all be sentenced to death? If those twenty guys only be punished, then it would be an unjust judgement. It would be discrimination. It would be a partiality. The judgement would be tenable to appeal as it acquits us for the same crime and convict the other few.

Should all be set free because we ourselves are guilty of the same crime? If that be the case, then we accuse ourselves of lowering the standard (that we set ourselves-Death Sentence) since we are not able to meet the standard. It should not be that way. Just because we do not meet the standards, does not mean, we lower the standard. Bible says in Romans 6: 23, 'For the wages of sin is death.' We sin, we get death. That's God's judgement too.

Should all be punished? How could all be punished since the one who passes the order of punishment is also guilty of the same crime? Should a woman pronounce the judgement? Is she not guilty of the same offence? Is she not guilty of lusting, raping and sexual assault on men through her eyes, thoughts, imaginations and fantasies? Bible says in Romans 3: 23, 'For all have sinned and fallen short of the standard set by God.'
Is God capable of pronouncing the judgement, convicting us, the accused and sentence us to death? For Him to be capable of doing that, He has to be holy, pure and sinless. Bible says in I Jn 3:5, 'in Him there is no sin.' In II Cor 5: 21, it is written, 'He knew no sin.' In Isaiah 6: 3 and Revelation 4: 8, the angelic beings are always saying, "Holy, holy, holy, Lord God Almighty, who was and is and is to come!"


But God does not take delight in the death of the wicked. He does not want to kill us. In Ezekiel 18:23, God speaks and says, "Do I have any pleasure at all that the wicked should die?" Why would He not kill us? Because He loves us. Bible says in Jeremiah 31: 3, God speaks, "I have loved you with an everlasting love."

Since we all have sinned and are worthy of death sentence, since God is capable of pronouncing the verdict but He does not want us to die because of His immense love for us, He became man and bore the punishment of our sins on the cross and died as He Himself had commanded and forgave us our sins who accepted this wonderful work of God's grace towards us.

This man is Jesus. Bible says in II Cor 5: 21, 'For He (God) made Him (Jesus) who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.' When you accept the work which Jesus did on the cross, then, God looks at you through Jesus and finds you, innocent. Jesus acts as a prism, as a filter, as a mediator. Bible says in Jn 3:15, 'That whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.'

You do not have to work towards proving yourself innocent. You do not have to suffer the pangs of guilt for the crimes you have committed. You do not have to suffer the ordeal of not knowing there is a way out. You do not have to walk through a dark alley not knowing that your sins, your crimes, your shame, your guilt has already been taken care of by God Himself through the death of Jesus Christ.

You do not have to make the treacherous trip to Amarnath. You do not need to go to Shirdi, Vaishno Devi, Gangotri, Ganges, Tirupati, Velankani, Mecca, Ajmer Sharif, satsanghs, meditation, self-realization camps.

What must I do to be saved? Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, that He alone is God. Ask forgiveness of your sins from Him. Accept Him as Lord and Master of your life. Turn away from all your sinful ways.

How will I live a new life? On the third day, Jesus Christ rose again from the dead. God raised Him from the dead. The power with which He raised Jesus from the dead is the same power He gives us to live a pure, holy, sinless, spotless and blameless lives. God's Holy Spirit comes to reside in our bodies who helps us creating a longing, a desire, a passion to live and lead a holy life. He helps us in revealing God's truth to us hidden in Bible. He speaks to us through Bible and Bible alone. All other teachings, preaching, books, articles, leaflets, audios, videos, and talks have to be verified with the Bible to ascertain if they are in accordance with Bible's teaching. If they are not they are false. They are lies. They are fraud.

Bible says in Jn 3: 16-18, 'For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son (Jesus Christ), that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.'